A Broken Friendship ~ Putusnya Persahabatan

Bulan November ternyata tidak berawal dengan baik. Group J2NS di facebook (beranggotakan 4 personil) harus bubar, gara2 masalah yang (menurut aku) sepele.

Sekilas tentang group J2NS
Group jadi²an ini berawal dr saat aku minta pendapat via message conference ke teman2 cross stitcher di facebook yg lbh master dari aku. Dari obrolan pertama di conference message berempat, J (me), J, N dan S, berlanjut ke message2 berikutnya. Dari share tentang kristik (because it is crossstitching that has united us), gosip seputar online shops & teman facebook yg lain, sampe ngobrol ga jelas juntrungannya. Ga jarang obrolan bikin ketawa2 sendiri di depan komputer, sampe2 ada beberapa teman facebook yg lain ternyata demen menyimak gurauan kami di wall. Sedangkan istilah J2NS ini berasal dr salah satu anggota, N, wkt dia ledekin the other J soal merek yg tepat buat paket kristik (cross stitch kit). Awalnya pada bingung, apaan tuh J2NS, koq namanya aneh. Setelah dipikir2, baru pada ngeh kl itu ternyata singkatan dr nama2 kami.

Terus, apa penyebab keretakan group? As I has written before, it was just a simple thing (for me). Mungkin aku menganggap hal itu sepele, karena bukan aku yg ngalamin.
Berawal dr N upload hasil jadi kristik yg dimodif pake beads. aku (as a newbie) menganggap itu bagus. Terus malemnya, the other J (as an advanced in cross stitching and beading) memberi input alias kritikan, yg (in my opinion) cukup keras. Waktu itu sedang mati listrik, dan bb udh lowbatt, sementara sinyal Tsel ga terlalu bagus, jd aku ga sempat koment lagi (tadinya berniat mau menetralisir komentnya J). Tau2 dpt sms dr N, ngoceh2 soal kritikan J. Yah aku cm bisa nyuruh dia tulis: yah namanya jg newbie. Then... J koment lg, yg ternyata bikin N makin kesel. Ditambah koment dari the other friend (L) yg rada² ga nyadar kl situasi udh panas, jadilah si N exploded.
J, yg udh nyadar kl N tersinggung, said she was sorry and would delete her previous comments. Tp N ga nanggapin dan terus ngoceh² di comment dan di conference message. At the end of the night, bagai ketokan palu hakim, masing2 urus masalah masing2. So, it that all?

It happened on Monday, the first of November. Then, besoknya, si teman (L) yg udh ikutan ksh kritikan yg membakar membangun the other day (I knew that she just wanted to share), ga ngeh juga kl situasi udah hampir meledak, and posted another comment on N's photo. Finally... both J and that friend were blacklisted. I did try to, but didn't make it, persuade N not to do it.
So simple, isn't it, to break a friendship? It started because of cross stitching matter, and ended because of the same thing.

Honestly, I was disappointed. I though that friends with a same hobby will get along well. I was wrong. *SIGH*

By the way, semalam setelah bersitegang sm N, yg akhirnya I gave up krn udh terjadi pem-blacklist-an, aku lanjutin sulaman, sambil mikir kejadian di FB. Ujung2nya aku ketawa2 sendiri. Really... it's very funny to think about L. She was so ........... *oh... I can't find a suitable word to describe her*
Parah banget deh deh tuh anak, koq bisa2nya ga sadar kl suasana udh sebegitu panasnya. Jangan2 dia jg blm tau kl udh diblacklist. *giggling again*