March 21, 2013

Cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan

Case 1: What will you do if a friend doesn't talk to you because you've done something wrong (to her/him)?
Case 2: And what if (as far as you remember) you've done nothing wrong?

Kalo aku, untuk case 1, aku bakal ngajak ngobrol biasa, seolah2 gak ada kejadian apa2. Aku gak bakal say sorry. Bukannya soal gengsi2an, tp memang susah buat minta maaf. Dan menurut aku, dgn aku ngajak ngobrol duluan, it means that I've admitted that I was wrong. Well, mgkn si teman gak ngerti maksud aku, but that's my way :D
Trs kalo si teman tetap musuhin? Yah udh, aku gak bakal terus menerus mencoba baik2in dia. A good friend will forgive you. If she/he won't forgive you, she/he is not a good friend.
Lain hal kl si teman lgsg marah ke aku. Seingat aku sih, sampai saat ini blm prnh ada teman face to face marahin aku. Tp kl kejadian orgnya lgsg "nyemprot", kemungkinan besar aku akan say sorry. I can't say for sure for something that has not yet happened.

Utk case 2, aku bakal mikir2 dulu, what have I done wrong? Kl gak ngerasa salah apa2, aku bakal diem juga. Kecuali ada hal yang perlu diomongin, baru diajak ngobrol. Tp gimana kl tetap dicuekin ato diketusin? I will think this way:

Bukannya aku gak butuh teman. I DO need friends. But in my opinion, it needs two to make a friendship. Kl cm sepihak, jadinya seperti cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan. :D

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