Life is short, yet beautiful

22-12-2011
~ Life is short, so you need not shorten your life ~

Tadi sore dpt sms dari teman di dunia perfesbukan, ada salah satu teman dr dunia yg sama (maksudnya dunia fesbuk) yg meninggal. Dan meninggalnya gara2 menenggelamkan diri di sungai. Kabar yg amat sangat mengagetkan. Sang almarhum selama ini aku kenal cukup 'bocor' kl ngobrol. Hampir ga pernah serius. Adik almarhum blg kl almarhum memang lg bnyk masalah akhir2 ini.

Should i take a pity on him? Aku lbh ngerasa kasihan dgn keluarga yg ditinggalkan. Anaknya yg plg kecil msh bayi. Seandainya dia ga mengambil jln pintas, aku lbh bisa merasa prihatin. Dgn dia memilih mengakhiri hidup, dia udh bebas dr segala masalah duniawi. Tinggal urusan dia dgn the Almighty. Sedangkan keluarganya? Mereka (istri n anak2nya) otomatis mendapat 'hibah' semua masalah yg ditinggalkannya. It's not fair, is it?
Well, bagaimanapun, semua udh terjadi. Life has no backspace. Mgkn dia sdg menyesali tindakannya skrg di alam sana, who knows? Jd aku cm bisa mendoakan semoga arwahnya tenang dan dosa2nya diampuni Tuhan.
*it is the second suicide incident of someone I knew*

19-12-2011
My friend's husband passed away after suffering from liver cancer for years. May he rest in peace.
In this case, I think it would be better for my friend after her husband passed away. No, I am not being mean. I just feel that, if the husband was still alive, and was still very ill, the wife would suffer more, emotionally and financially. It's hurt to see someone you love suffering. Now the husband is free from any pain. The wife, maybe she will mourn for some time, will be able to move on with her life, and also her children's. I'm sure she can handle all difficulty she might face; she's a strong woman :)

~ Life is beautiful... Enjoy every single moment in your life ~